Did I ruin my chance with her?

Did I ruin my chance with her?


Did I ruin my chance with her?


Here's the deal: Went out with an attractive girl that we had lots in common with. She did the following and ladies I want you to tell me the meaning of these actions:





She extended her arms out toward me with her palms up, not touching mine, she kept crossing her legs and leaning over. She kept playing with her boot. She told me she didnt' have socks on under her boots, she gave me sips of her drinks several times, she also invited me to see the house she was going to be until she realized it was getting late. We were out until a little after midnight during the work week.





I flirted with her, held her hand for a little bit, and told her that I could tell that she was into yoga and loved to cook. Both were true. She seemed amazed. She also seemed red and was smiling alot and at one point rested her chin on her palm while she laughed at things I said that weren't even meant to be funny. I asked her out again, and she said "I'd love to" with this face like "aww, isn't that cute.





I felt something there, but I still just kissed her on the cheek. I haven't heard back from her in three weeks. I know she's in the process of buying a new house, but she also never got back to me after I called her to remind her about meeting me again that following week.





This may sound trite, but did it sound like I expressed enough interest in her? Did my not kissing her on the lips cost me getting to know her more? Did it sound like I played my cards right?......





I didnt' want to move too forward

Did I ruin my chance with her?
Hey , don't stress she a smart girl. She has other priority's now. It takes time with someone that wants more out of life then just sex.Don't get so caught up on a girl you just meet.
Reply:You did absolutely nothing wrong! You were a sweet gentleman but who knows maybe she wanted more. Maybe you were suppose to push her to do more.
Reply:she wanted to be in bed with u that night but u didnt and what she wants is a fast relationship!! if u didnt evern kiss her on the lips she doesnt even want to try u!!!
Reply:well it depends on how serious the kiss was but sooner or later she'll realize that she still has u to come to for comfort
Reply:if it was me i would say not really but maybe just a little bit. well no you didn't. just give it some time. things will even out. just invite her out again and just say what your feeling for her and then she'll realize what a great guy you are. i would.
Reply:Just take things slow, or at the pace she is dictating to you. Things do not have to move lightning fast in order to "win" her over. Some of us girls like to get to know the guy really well before taking it to the next level.