What is going on with this woman? Is she interested or not? What should I do?

Here's the deal: Went out with an attractive girl that we had lots in common with. She did the following and ladies I want you to tell me the meaning of these actions She extended her arms out toward me with her palms up, not touching mine, she kept crossing her legs and leaning over. She kept playing with her boot. She told me she didnt' have socks on under her boots, she gave me sips of her drinks several times, she also invited me to see the house she was going to be until she realized it was getting late. We were out until a little after midnight during the work week.


I flirted with her, held her hand for a little bit before s, and told her that I could tell that she was into yoga and loved to cook. Both were true. She seemed amazed. She also seemed red and was smiling alot and at one point rested her chin on her palm while she laughed at things I said that weren't even meant to be funny. I asked her out again, and she said "I'd love to" with this face like "aww, isn't that cute


1 hour ago - 3 days left to answer.


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When I put my hand in hers, she held it, but seemed confused then I asked her if she minded it, she stared at her menu and said no, then she pulled it away after about 5 seconds.





Also, I have called her a total of 5 times in those three weeks and I never plan to ever again.





A year later (Christmas eve), I found her profile by accident on another website.





So I said hi and she pretty much said





"It's nice to 'see' you again and asked me if I still worked where I did (how did she remember)?





I asked her out to dinner again, is that wrong or do you think she's still interested.





And one more thing worth noting---I may be answering my own question. When I emailed her, she got back to me Christmas Day (the next day). When I asked her out again, it's been 4 days and she hasn't written me back.

What is going on with this woman? Is she interested or not? What should I do?
She sounds like a tease...or maybe she is just scared, but my guts are telling me she is a tease. Better move on, and find someone who isn't going to jerk you around like that. If someone is truly interested in you, they would not run you around like that....they would be just as eager to speak to you as you are to them.





Good Luck!
Reply:No offense taken, at all. I have to agree with you there. I see it all the time, and I have been on the receiving end myself, so I know how much it stinks.





Just keep your chin up! Report It

Reply:oh for goodness sake ! in the time it took you to type this question, you could've been married with 2 kids !
Reply:umm. wow this is confusing but hard to tell, i think though that she was just confused and maybe she does like you but dont take my word for it
Reply:well by now she is probably dating someone knew or she might think your weird.
Reply:She's flirting. It's really up to you.