What do u do when u see nude pictures of your husband on his desktop and the other in a hotel room ?

i recently opened my husband's laptop and lo and behold i saw the greatest shock of my life,i saw a picture of my husband's penis on the desktop,i didn't say anything to him.then the second time i used his computer i had been out of town for 5 days as i came back,i wanted to use his computer,i now saw another picture of him lying down in a hotel room wearing an underwear i gave him with his dick in his hands,and by the side of the bed was a lady's bag and a shawland it was the day i left for a journey.and for the 3rd time again i saw a picture of his dick again on his desk top with some kind of liquid on his palm.please advice me on what to do?do i confront him?or what should i say to him,the other pictures were all taken in my living room.please help advice on the right thing i should do?

What do u do when u see nude pictures of your husband on his desktop and the other in a hotel room ?
Your husband has a problem. Seriously. You HAVE to confront him with it. Secrets like this will destroy your marriage because it will always be on your mind. Talk to him about it, tell him it bothers you, and go together to get help for him.
Reply:if you don't know what that liquid is your not giving him a good sex life. just one day turn off all the lights and get into fishnets and sexy clothes put some candles on and close the blinds then bring him into the bedroom and have sex with him. and start have sex once a week it's better for you and your husband he will start cheating on you if you don't have sex with him he will get bored of you then leave.
Reply:It appears that your husband is using the pictures to lure other females into the bedroom. I think the next time I would get a Nanny Cam and record his misbehavior while your away. That way when you confront him, you will have all the evidence needed to either take him to court or to send to Americas funniest home videos. Good luck.
Reply:Tell him to move out. If he asks why say you go look at you desktop and tell me. Obviously he has something he is hiding and needs to do away from you. If he is going to hotel rooms without you that is never a good sign. Not to mention he is a pervert having a midlife crisis if he has to look at pictures of his own penis!
Reply:You have to talk to him about this. Something is wrong. That purse makes it sound like he is cheating. Even if he isn't ... something weird is going on. Almost sounds like he wants to be caught. You will have to decide whether the marriage is worth working on. If it is you guys need counseling.





Either way ... you can't ignore this.
Reply:He's trolling the net to see if he can find a woman to f*** or and beat off to. print and keep for the future. Talk with him about a possible problem in your relationship. If you are not aren't giving him what he needs then it is expected, but if you are then there's a problem.
Reply:Question what is wrong with you? The FIRST, time you should of confronted him and then left him!!! Imagine what you haven't found out!!! In less you crave the experience of getting Aids, Gonnarhea, Syphillis etc, and having "babes momma's" calling your home and your family and friends rolling their eyes at you....
Reply:He's a sex addict and most likely posting pics up on the internet.





Sex addiction means prostitutes.





Prostitutes means herpes.





I would get a divroce. This is unacceptable.
Reply:There is no way a man would put his own penis on his desktop unless he was sending the picture to someone else. Confront him. What the hell? Are you crazy???
Reply:you know whats going on. and the liquid is for massaging the cock. better fine some ways to satisfy your man or else you'll lose him probably right after your next trip.
Reply:first download the pictures to a cd.... then get them printed off......





ask him about them...... and then drop his as- because he is most likely cheating on you.
Reply:What a freak! Who is taking the pics? The right thing to do is divorce him and leave him with nothing but his penis in his hand! LOL
Reply:Talk to him. And I really think you need to get better advice than on yahoo answers. (No disrespect intended to any posters).
Reply:U should dump his pervy ***. hes obvisiouly sending them pics 2 a girl and cheating on you. print the pics of and get REVENGE!!!!
Reply:I'd print out the picture and attach a note that read "Here's the reason I'm dumping your sorry butt".
Reply:You have to confront him then throw him the hell out, hes a scum bag!
Reply:sorry, looks like he is cheating on you. Men, let them loose and they act like dogs. so sorry.
Reply:Man, nothing like internet porn!!! Shock him, put a picture of 'you' on his laptop....tell him you are doing some 'lap dancing'! LOLLOL
Reply:ask? listen if you dont believe: Leave. Obviously he is sloppy with what he is doing so he cant care much! Good Luck
Reply:Sorry to tell you but he's a creep.
Reply:It seems to me he is asking to be caught
Reply:Don't say anything yet. Get your finances and possessions in order, get an attorney and kick his *** out. It is beyond fixing, GUARANTEED! Depending on which state you are in, the pictures and emails, if any, may be of value in a divorce. If you aren't sure if you should leave him, consider this...do want to contract AIDs? He isn't giving you a choice. He is risking your LIFE by having sex with other people and not telling you. You have not even been given the choice of protecting yourself. He is hold a gun to your head, spinning the barrell and pulling the trigger, should you duck? RUN LIKE HELL!!!!!!
Reply:It is terrible to find the turth. it is foul in the air.





Usually I will wait until he comes home, then I like discuss if he is unhappy in the marriage or he is not being himself. Then show the pictures and explain why are you doing this.





sometimes men hide something from you, and hate himself to confident to tell you what is going on? No yell or shout because he will NOT show you how he feel then dump him after all the dicussion. I rather to hear himself pop the turth or he shut up and walked away.





then you know what to do next.





I don't know but you know very well with your husband.





good luck!