Did I ruin my chance with her?

Did I ruin my chance with her?


Here's the deal: Went out with an attractive girl that we had lots in common with. She did the following and ladies I want you to tell me the meaning of these actions:





She extended her arms out toward me with her palms up, not touching mine, she kept crossing her legs and leaning over. She kept playing with her boot. She told me she didnt' have socks on under her boots, she gave me sips of her drinks several times, she also invited me to see the house she was going to be until she realized it was getting late. We were out until a little after midnight during the work week.





I flirted with her, held her hand for a little bit, and told her that I could tell that she was into yoga and loved to cook. Both were true. She seemed amazed. She also seemed red and was smiling alot and at one point rested her chin on her palm while she laughed at things I said that weren't even meant to be funny. I asked her out again, and she said "I'd love to" with this face like "aww, isn't that cute.





I felt something there, but I still just kissed her on the cheek. I haven't heard back from her in three weeks. I know she's in the process of buying a new house, but she also never got back to me after I called her to remind her about meeting me again that following week.





This may sound trite, but did it sound like I expressed enough interest in her? Did my not kissing her on the lips cost me getting to know her more? Did it sound like I played my cards right?......





I didnt' want to move too forward.

Did I ruin my chance with her?
No girl that is interested in someone would wait 3 weeks to return a call. For whatever reason she obviously is no longer interested in you or she would be making some kind of effort to get in touch with you. Maybe she's worried that you will become obsessed with her like you have with LaDanian Tomlinson?
Reply:no, it sounds like you were a great date. you didn't say if you contacted her. if you didn't, maybe you're both in the same boat! maybe you called to soon/ too late? don't bother reading too much into her body language, it doesn't mean much, to be honest.
Reply:will sometimes girls don't know what they really want so just keep calling her or go to her house
Reply:You should have kissed her on the lips and been more forward , it may have blown your chance because she probably thinks you don't like her well enough to kiss her on the lips.
Reply:i would say call her up and ske her this.. how else are you gonna know?.. well allllllllllllllll those signs means tht she really liked u.. but maybe there is somethin rong with her life right now tht meant she coudnt deal with a relationship or something like tht.. but am sure if you call her up and ask her if there is somethin rong and tell her 2 b honest ur mind will be at rest... good luck:}
Reply:Sounds like this girl either got back with an ex, or she just might be a player. I say forget about her. Sometimes that's just the way it goes.
Reply:well, it sounds like she was really into you on the date. girls are really hard to read, i'm sure you have figured that out. not kissing her where she probably wanted you to might have hurt your chances. guys don't really know how much that first kiss means. that is what we remember you by and what we think when about when we call you back for the second date. although, maybe she really is busy. but if she really wanted to see you again, she could make time for a five minute phone call. move on, if she calls you, great! but the next time you take a girl out and you know she is really into you, give her a kiss she will remember.
Reply:No its fine, and better like that, most like either she found some else, or as u said she is busy. U called her and did ur part, she knows u are intersted since u called, so the rest is fine.
Reply:What you did was perfect...we'll that's the way I would have wanted it to go. I would give her another call, you never know, maybe she didn't get your first message but if after that she still doesn't call you back, let it go...it wasn't meant to be.
Reply:It sounds like you were a perfect gentleman and a fun date. But the "aww isn't that cute" thing does not sound good unless you are a puppy. I think you better keep looking. If I found a guy I was really into, i would not be 3 weeks too busy, good guys are hard to find, but that's just me.





I don't think it had anything to do with the kiss on the cheek.
Reply:It sounds like maybe, unfortunately, she just wanted to see if u would bite....purely for her ego...
Reply:I think that was great you are a really good guy if she doesn't like you she is gotta be a real witch to not go out with you again :).
Reply:wow thats alot. I dont think you ruined your chances, but it depends if she is very fast with reelationships, if she is, then she probably wanted to go further that night. Or maybe she just didnt have time to call you back yet, but three weeks sounds like a VERY long time. Try calling her again and if she doesnt call you back this time i would think that its over.


good luck
Reply:3 weeks is a long time. You can wait for things to come to you or you can make them happen.
Reply:I think you did just fine. It a lot of work, buying a house. Maybe


she's busy.
Reply:call her!
Reply:probably
Reply:LOL............. You answer your own q.





" but she also never got back to me after I called her to remind her about meeting me again that following week.





I haven't heard back from her in three weeks"





You don't have enough social value in her eyes right now or she would be calling you. THINK ABOUT IT. Even if she was buying 4 houses, it only takes a moment to make a cell phone call or two.





Read this interview with a female to understand how they can do this to you: http://www.bristollair.com/outer-game/sk...
Reply:I'm sorry but it's hard to say, it sounds like she was in to you.
Reply:I think you def showed enough affection. Some girls will kiss on the first date and others won't so I def think you did the right thing. Maybe she is really just busy! If you only called her once give her another call and leave a message saying that you would love to see her again and to call you back if she wants to go out for dinner or something like that. Hopefully she will call you back. If she doesnt then I wouldnt stress b/c you did NOTHING wrong!
Reply:Dude!! you were perfect!! call her!! the palm thing totally gave it away!! She yours!!





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Reply:yeas i think she would not mind at all having any thing from you. maybe she wantted x . but you want to love her? she seems looking for a one night of love and you did not give it to here.


but beleieve me even if you did she might be from the type looking for a pleasure not more as you said she thinks a home is here priorty not the relations and true love.